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Kris Allen's avatar

Thanks very much for this beautiful writing and for naming thoughts that I had been not quite able to.. - I think the friend in your opening anecdote could have been speaking for me at times recently in certain circles. I appreciate all of this and Amen to "we need all of it!!"

I'd like to share one personal example of generous "negative space" in your music, and how it worked itself out in my life. This past year your song "Baltimore" was my most listened- to-track. I wasn't surprised to see this in the Spotify end-of-year business. I actually came to the song and it's album by way of Joshua Redman's recent cover on "Where We Are" which is so beautiful. Smitten by the melody and chord structure, and somewhat familiar with your music (but not with this particular song) I had to investigate. I quickly fell in love with the whole Book of Travelers, and with the original " Baltimore." - The words initially felt like a fun puzzle to solve... and knowing a little something about the musics origin story helped me to appreciate the stranger-than-fiction complexity that a conversation could have, where a story of grief and loss could be wrapped up in asides about the history of the National Park system!

But as I listened repeatedly, and figured it out for myself on the piano... it was clearly doing some work on me beyond what you could have intended. I'm a single father, and the big emotional task of this past year was sending my oldest (son) off to college. I think that even before I knew the words to Baltimore there was some kind of melancholy spirit in those tones resonating with me... and once I heard the lyrics, with their imagery about sending young men off to find themselves... "Give him an ax and a seed, Give him a pack and a tree, Teach him to care for himself, Give him fresh air for his health" I was tipped over the edge! I would listen to this song, (both your original and Redman's version) daily, and cry. It became a sacrament of sorts, a way to vent and really feel all of it, all of the insecurities about how well I had prepared my son for adulthood, and uncertainty over what our relationship would look like in the future. It's a beautiful kind of serendipity that has happened to me several times, where a piece of music becomes an emotional monument of a particular time or experience, and I know that through that song I'll always be able to go back and re-inhabit the feeling of that season, so thanks for that as well, and isn't music something?:-)

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Paul Hossfield's avatar

"Without music, life would be a mistake."

-Frederick Neitzche

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